In honor of back to school I asked five of the writers I greatly admire to weigh in. With a very loose hat tip to the wonderful Raymond Carver–I wanted to know what these writers talk about when they talk about back to school. So here goes…(I’ve posted pictures of them from when they were kids. (Click on their links to see how cute they still are).

I was curious because it’s only now I realize that for me back to school is just like New Years, but in September. At its best back to school is about pure possibility and new relationships, about the people I’d meet, the friendships we’d make and the memories we’d share (and still do). Sitting in a classroom is nothing compared to that. [That's me in, I think, fourth grade. Note the straight hair--all natural. Adolescent hormones clearly had not kicked in yet.]

SARAH LUDWIG

“This year, back-to-school marks a new era for me, one that will be more about writing than it ever has been in the past since my kids are now all in school full-time. Though the transition is more emotional than I ever imagined, I’m learning to embrace it. Here’s to letting passion and creativity flow like never before.”

Sarah has written for the Christian Science Monitor and is a contributor to Larger Families and HV Parent. She blogs about figuring out momhood at Parenting by Trial and Error.

DENISE SCHIPANI

“When I was a child, I always got a new homework pad — those little spiral-bound books you’d jot your assignments in. Like many, if not most, writers, the clean page of a new notebook represents possibility. Combine that with the cooler breezes and bluer skies of autumn, and it’s like I break free of that last sluggish bit of summer fogging my brain and am raring to go again. Even if I’m not going to school.”

Denise, who writes regularly for national magazines, also pens the monthly “Mom Advice” column in American Baby magazine, and tells all at her own blog Confessions of a Mean Mommy.

RON DOYLE

“You’d think, after decades as student and teacher, I’d be slurping piña coladas on a beach somewhere this Labor Day weekend, mocking others for whom academia is a storm cloud, looming large. But instead, I’m seeking new projects, and secretly missing that dense, dark cloud—that symbolic watermark on the cycle of life’s learning, wet and heavy with new beginnings. And besides, I’m in grad school—so I get to be just like the other suckers come September 14. Woo-hoo! School forever!”

Ron is on assignment with Backpacker Magazine, and is the brains behind Twittercize, a free program that offers one minute exercise suggestions every hour via Twitter. He writes the very fun to read Blog Salad, where one bite’s never enough.

CLAUDIA COPQUIN

Claudia is the author of The Neighborhoods of Queens. and the recent “Go Back To School Already” essay in Newsday. I think Claudia speaks for many when she says: “I thought once my children were older, I’d have the space I require to pursue my craft in utter silence, while they tended to their summer jobs every day from 9 to 5. But they had other plans, none of which involved either peace or quiet or working full-time.” Her newest child is Getting Married on Long Island.

JEN SINGER

Jen is the creator of the wonderful, often hysterical Momma Said, and the author of Stop Guessing Yourself, the second in her trilogy of parenting books. Jen was a guest here a few months back (love her interview about writing). But here’s Jen’s take on back to school and why it’s most definitely time for the bell to ring.

What do you talk about when you talk about back to school?

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Sarah E. Ludwig September 6, 2009 at 9:17 pm

Thanks for the plug, Meredith! I love your blog. It's so inspiring.

Claudine M. Jalajas September 7, 2009 at 6:33 am

You know, most of these comments talked about renewal and possibilities. I do not see these traits in my sons' faces as they hang their heads and drag their heels to the bus each morning. (Mine started last week–you are SOO freakin' jealous right now). However, I maintain, that education is wasted on the young. They cannot POSSIBLY appreciate the things that they are being taught. So what that pioneers walked (hiked, dragged themselves, and died) walking more than 2,000 miles through the "Oregon trail." When's recess?

Alexandra September 7, 2009 at 6:41 am

What a great idea for a blog post! I really enjoyed reading the thoughts of these writers on what they call in France, "la rentree," with an accent on the first e. Posting their photos as kids was inspirational. Bravo!

Claudine M. Jalajas September 7, 2009 at 7:38 am

You inspired me. Here's my blog post on back to school! http://claudinejalajas.blogspot.com/2009/09/back-on-glorious-big-yellow-bus.html

Peggy Bourjaily September 7, 2009 at 8:46 am

Lovely post! Even though most of us only go to school for just under 25 years, it's so ingrained in our psyches. I feel more of a renewal in September and the feeling that anything is possible if I sharpen a few pencils and tidy up my desk…

Kim September 7, 2009 at 10:03 am

What a cute entry :) I love your old pic!

Liz Zuercher September 7, 2009 at 12:13 pm

Back to school = new crayons! You need the biggest box possible with colors you never heard of before and familiar ones you can't do without, all with lovely sharp points at attention, ready to create.

Jen Singer September 7, 2009 at 4:20 pm

What a clever idea for a blog post. Thanks for including me with these fine writers. School starts in another 13 hours or so here, and all I can say is, "I'm telling Mom!"

Sheryl Kraft September 7, 2009 at 6:34 pm

This is really fun to read. Nice to include the pics, too! Great post idea.

kelliforniadreaming September 7, 2009 at 8:23 pm

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Jennifer Margulis September 7, 2009 at 9:33 pm

What a fun post. I especially love the photos! I for one am overwhelmed by the whole back to school thing. It took so long to settle into summer and now it's time to go back to a schedule… I guess the only constant with kids is change!

MarthaAndMe September 8, 2009 at 4:53 am

The thing I remember most about back to school was not being able to sleep the night before. I also was the geek that brought home every single textbook so I could look through them.

Susan Matthewson September 8, 2009 at 11:13 am

Unfortunately, unlike many of the other commenters, I do not have those positive associations of "renewal and new beginnings" with the start of school.

"Back to school" for me is associated with the dreaded Toni Home Permanent for Little Girls that my mother was convinced none of her three daughters could start school without.

I remember her lining us up in the kitchen in August and moving from one to the other while we all held our noses at that "horrible" permanent smell. It was torture.

And then we had to endure all the school pictures year after year where we all looked liked versions of Clarabelle the Clown from the Howdy Doody Show with her fuzzy-wuzzy hair. My mom thought each of us looked just "cute as a bug," as she'd say. I always wondered: Yeah, well who wants to be cute as a BUG for God's sake?

While my sisters and I were all blessed with thin, straight, stringy hair (thus my mother's obsession with "curls"), the Gods were on my side with my daughter because she was born with a head of thick, curly hair just like Meredith's, except she's blond. And, of course, you might know, she hates it, because she says it's "such a pain." Every time she complains, I just bring out my school photos and she laughs so hard she cries. I cry, too, but I'm not sure I'm crying because it's funny.

Susan Cameron September 8, 2009 at 5:00 pm

Two words, Susan M: Pixie Cut.

The horror, the horror! Mom's friend was in beauty school, needed to practice her pixie cuts, and did them for free. Mom overpaid.

My high school shag haircut? I loved it, and have no one to blame but myself. =)

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